Time is a great healer they say, give it time things will get easier they say, your at the very early stages they say it will get better.

One thing I know for sure time will not ease the pain of losing my child, how can it, do I suddenly not miss her as much? do I somehow forget that she’s gone? of course not this is something that will stay with me forever and maybe over time I will get used to the ache inside my heart and maybe over time I will learn to avoid situations that will upset me and as the months and years go by I will be become a new me a different me but never ever will time makes things better.